Blending families successfully is not a task to take lightly. You maybe in a situation where you are with the guy/girl of your dreams with the extra “baggage” of his/hers children in tow. There are so many factors involved when you have to blend a family. You have kids that are of different ages… or sometimes, like it was in my case, kids who are REALLY close in age. When I got married to my ex-husband (yeah we can talk…